Like begets like

Before i start anything to write on this , i want to analyze myself on such a subject as love.Sounds simple but the notions and thoughts which pass are highly complex. For instance i just want to analyze makes me really go for a person, is it the looks , is it the securities he can give what ..exactly what pulls one person to another .

When i was 16-18 i read Gone with the wind and the fury of love and passion which passed between Scarlett and Rhett at that time kept on bowling me for ever and ever, even it drove me to the extent of buying a sequel to the novel , a VCD and all that. From then on i have been trying to analyze what is it that has drove me only to certain kind of people and not others . the famous dialogue which runs the book ' Like begets like ' kept running in my mind from then on till now ..
So people in love are they always like minded ?

Or is it like i always thought a destiny of souls , for some to come together , for some to want to come together , for some never to meet at all.........



What is it actually , a passion to see what we want to see through others eyes, a way of assuring ourselves, a reason of reproduction ( !!!) , a stubbornness of mind and thought ...or destiny itself..

I for myself could not help myself about the reason of why we want to fall in love again and again..maybe some one can help me..


Edited on 12/07/2007 :

Frankly i can no longer see or read gone with the wind now a days..
My heart breaks to see Rhett leaving her at the end..She might get him back but the death of Meleanie changes a lot ..and i cannot see the end like that.